How to Overcome a Fear of Partnerships with Jessie Dillon, Ep. 744

Written by John Casmon

September 2, 2025

Jessie Dillon is a Massachusetts-based beauty salon owner turned real estate investor and mentor. Since starting in 2021, she has built a portfolio of over 50 units, primarily long-term rentals, while also managing short- and mid-term rentals. Jessie specializes in partnerships, scaling through collaboration after quickly realizing the limitations of investing solo.


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Key Takeaways

  • Jessie transitioned from solo investor to partnerships after running out of capital.
  • Attending conferences like BP Con shifted her mindset and opened doors to strategic relationships.
  • She uses a clear, intentional process for identifying and attracting capital partners.
  • Building a portfolio requires patience—sometimes long stretches of “no deals” precede major breakthroughs.
  • Aligning partnerships and balancing equity-building with cash flow are key to long-term success.


Topics

From Beauty Salon Owner to Real Estate Investor

  • Began investing in 2021 with three small multifamily properties.
  • Quickly tapped out of capital and realized the need for partnerships.

Overcoming Resistance to Partnerships

  • Initially hesitant due to her solo entrepreneurial background.
  • A breakthrough at BP Con 2022 reframed partnerships as essential for scaling.

Building Partnerships Intentionally

  • Created an avatar of her ideal partner and listed 50 potential connections.
  • Sent messages asking for referrals, which led to her first successful capital partner.
  • Replicated this process to form additional partnerships.

Deal Criteria and Strategy

  • Focused on value-add multifamily between 8–15 units, ~$80K per door.
  • Looks for proforma rents at least 1.5% of purchase price.
  • Now pivoting toward more cash-flow-heavy assets like self-storage and short-term rentals.

The Role of Mentorship and Community

  • Found mentors through BiggerPockets and Women Invest in Real Estate (WIIRE).
  • Attends retreats and conferences to stay surrounded by action-takers.
  • Emphasizes balancing education with taking action.


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Round of Insights

Failure that set Jessie up for success: A deal fell apart when a capital partner pulled out last minute, forcing her to be more selective and intentional with partnerships.

Digital or mobile resource: Apple Podcasts app: accessible, free learning on the go.

Book recommendation: In the FLO by Alisa Vitti.

Daily habit: Using the Reminders app for everything to stay focused.

#1 insight for building partnerships: Only pursue partnerships that feel aligned and mutually beneficial; both sides should feel like they’re winning.

Favorite restaurant in Hopkinton, MA: Arcos.


Next Steps

  • Follow Jessie on Instagram: @jessiedillon_
  • Connect through Women Invest in Real Estate for resources and mentorship opportunities.
  • Check out our previous episode with Jessie: Link


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